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I've been stumbling into the next best word lately. Today it was pouring rain, I pointed at an umbrella and said chair. Something about that felt familiar. I'd done it before.

Hit your forties and it would be easy to blame middle age if both of my parents hadn't died with Alzheimer's disease.

We live in an over-disclosing society. Your every fear, every weakness easily exposed and dissected. There's a soft underbelly to that, and it's found in the echo of friends who watch your words as they fly by on social media.

Once I am mad as a hatter, I expect to hear about first in a direct message. Gentle and private.

When my father found shortcuts around knowing my name; when my mother couldn't even pretend to know me but there was love enough to make up for it, the words were the least important part of our relationship. For the child of a doctor and an English teacher to care about emotions more than words, there ought to be a better word than irony.

It's been raining in New Orleans as relentlessly as a bad joke. In the middle of that, I can't always find the word I mean for umbrella when heading out into the rain. There's a strength to accepting this occasional word blindness.

My world of words and friends will remind me before anyone else has to.

 

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of our newest badge: Community Curator. View All Recency |  Popularity photoStudentinlife340 Fans   3 hours ago (12:36 AM)Not to be insensitive, can this "blindness" be directed toward a new path. A path where words are overrated. I often encounter times when I simply cannot express my emotional feelings with words. This I am finding at I travel, where words in one language simply do not translate. Words are overrated in my opinion. Having lived in Thailand for almost 5 years without speaking Thai, I can say that touching, facial and hand gestures, body movements are much more expressive and seem to lead to a compassionate bond. Words I think are controlled by the mind. Non-verbal communications are from the heart. Namatase.Studentinlife: Not to be insensitive, can this "blindness" be directed towardhttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/Studentinlife/when-words-mean-other-wor_b_1691307_170403859.htmlHistory |Permalink |Share it photoBobby Anderson12 Fans 2 minutes ago ( 3:53 AM)Excellent observations. I have found this to be true as well. When in doubt about faces in a crowd, I simply smile and magically I feel I am with a group of friends as smiles are returned to me.Bobby_Anderson: Excellent observations. I have found this to be true ashttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/Bobby_Anderson/when-words-mean-other-wor_b_1691307_170421979.htmlHistory |Permalink |Share itThis comment has been down-ranked into oblivion. View comment You have not right to carry out this operation or Error this operation. spinnerLoading comments…This comment has been down-ranked into oblivion. View comment You have not right to carry out this operation or Error this operation. spinnerLoading comments… photoNuttin20 Fans 4 hours ago (12:04 AM)Excellent, as always.
I had this same conversation with a friend today whose father has Alzheimer's disease, every slip of his memory, like forgetting words, means something totally different to him... and you.
You always find the perfect words though.Nuttin: Excellent, as always. I had this same conversation with ahttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/Nuttin/when-words-mean-other-wor_b_1691307_170399473.htmlHistory |Permalink |Share it photoHUFFPOST BLOGGERKaren Dalton-BeninatoNew Orleans Writer743 Fans   3 hours ago (12:58 AM)Thank you Becky, you're at the top of the Word Friends list.hp_blogger_Karen Dalton-Beninato: Thank you Becky, you're at the top of the Wordhttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/hp_blogger_Karen Dalton-Beninato/when-words-mean-other-wor_b_1691307_170406468.htmlHistory |Permalink |Share itThis comment has been down-ranked into oblivion. View comment You have not right to carry out this operation or Error this operation. spinnerLoading comments…This comment has been down-ranked into oblivion. View comment You have not right to carry out this operation or Error this operation. spinnerLoading comments…    new comment(s) on this entry — Click to refreshspinnerLoading comments… #ad_sponsorship .module .title:before{border-bottom:transparent solid 10px;border-right:hsla(0, 0%, 0%, 0.1) solid 21px;bottom:-12px;content:'';display:block;height:2px;left:0;position:absolute;}#ad_sponsorship .module .title:after{border-bottom:transparent solid 10px;border-right:#afafaf solid 20px;bottom:-10px;content:'';display:block;height:0;left:0;position:absolute;}#ad_sponsorship .module .hd {position:relative;border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 5px;color: #FFFFFF;height: 30px;margin:5px 0 5px; }#ad_sponsorship .module .hd .title{float:left;margin:7px 0 0 10px;}#zoc_doc_wrapper { padding-left:20px; }TAKE CARE OF YOUR SMILE Powered By ZocDoc FOLLOW US Facebook Twitter Apple Android Blackberry Email Rss Connect with your friends Check out stories you might like,
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